my last post i briefly touched on a situation between myself and a couple of friends which has been ongoing for some time. just to update, i finally had the 'talk' with these friends. again, i think it's only right that i don't go into great detail or name the friends, but the current situation really went back a lot further than i thought. about the time when i left taiwan. so, basically three years of shit had to brought kicking and screaming into the present in order to forge ahead into the future. it was a long conversation, full of tears and anger, but everything that needed to be said was said and i feel better for doing it. it also made me realize just how my decisions at the time really laid the foundation for friendship this time around...it's also made me realize that i may preach openness when it comes to communication, but i don't always practice it.
in the end, we all felt better for getting things off our chest and have decided that it's time to make a new start. reset. clean slate. friendship isn't always the dizzying highs and if there are problems, we need to communicate them to each other. it's going to time and effort, but the rewards in the end are nothing short of untold riches...and i feel damn good about that.
the party this weekend was great. i was a little worried about the guest list. i know the invitees, but there has always been a buffer friend between us so it always feels a little weird hanging out for the first time. honestly, the awkwardness evaporated in about ten seconds and it was just a good time. everyone kept commenting on how nice it was to hang out with some different people and what a good job leesh and i did in bringing together an excellent group. so, a huge success and now i have built or at least strengthened all these new relationships.
feels great to be sailing on the 'friend' ship once more.
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