2009

Another year has come and gone or, very nearly at any rate. Before I ring in the new year, I just wanted to stop to consider the things that have changed over the last year.


The biggest change in my life has been the fact that I am now a married man. I still can’t really believe it sometimes...it feels so, so....adult I guess. I know that may sound strange, but it sometimes feel like I am still an awkward kid, struggling to catch up to this supposed adult life I am living. Being married hasn’t really changed things with my relationship to Elisha, but it does change the way people look at you. When I was just dating Elisha (or going steady, or whatever) I can say that there were less expectations on us...no requirements to act like a married couple, such as giving up going out, or spending our time doing bathroom reno’s on the weekend. Perhaps those are just the things I thought married couples did. Anyway, I find that the same pre-conceived notions I had about married couples are now being used as weapons in judgment against me. When I tell people I’m married, their first impression usually involves me being too old to certain things. Either that or being asked if I have children or when Elisha and I will have them. Sigh. Guess a taste of my own medicine was due and I of all people should’ve expected this. It changes nothing for me...I still feel the same when I wasn’t married and love Elisha all the more. That’s what being married means to me.

Other big changes in the year have meant 2 major moves; first, deciding to move from the West coast giving up yet another apartment, sparse furniture, jobs and saying goodbye to friends. Not that we had a big life out there, but it still gets more difficult to say see ya later every time we decide to move on. When we do decide to move on, it’s usually a combination of something not working and something missing. In the case of Nanaimo, it had a lot to do with money. I was stuck in a job that was supposed to be temporary, living a life I had left behind 4 years previously, only to find myself back in it with a different backdrop. Location had little to with it...the island itself is a beautiful place and given time, I think I could’ve adjusted to all the naturalness but the life itself wasn’t what we were hoping for. I guess I just hoped that the West would be full of promise for us. If and when I do settle back in Canada, I think B.C. would be top of the list.

But things change and I would be remiss to say that I don’t thrive on change. The other big upheaval in my life over the last year was to return to Taiwan. It also hasn’t turned out exactly as planned, but you know what they say about best laid plans going to waste. I can safely say that Taiwan has held true in one regard and that it being a place to expect the unexpected. While life hasn’t worked out as hoped, it has still worked out over the last few months and I’m very happy to be back. In just a few short months, finances have improved, we’ve met some new people and are just generally enjoying life that much more. All in all, the decision to return was a sound choice and I’m looking forward to handling all the curveballs this place can throw at me in 2010.

So here’s to yet another year and looking forward to what lies ahead.

The Life and Times of Macy Grey

Throughout Asia it is impossible to walk more than 5 feet without seeing, hearing, smelling or nearly being run into by that most ubiquitous of transportation, the scooter. They come in all shapes, sizes, makes and models but they remain an affordable and simple way to get around crowded city streets. Our little scooter, Macy Grey, has recently found its way back to us. Even though I have only had her back for 4 short hours, I can already say that I really feel like my long lost child has come home at last.
Macy Grey is nothing short of a miracle.She is not so much a scooter as she is a wizened old soul, housed in her metal and plastic casing. She knows the streets of Taipei like the back of her tires and almost seems to guide her driver to his or her destination (or that could be the shaky steering column) Macy was given to us in 2006 by a friend who was leaving Taiwan. Macy had been given to our friend by a friend of hers, who had also had Macy given to her by another friend (original owner) Ms. Grey (Macy to her friends) had actually sat for about 6 months prior to our friend giving her to us. Our friend randomly decided to try to start Macy one day and she worked! When we became her owner, Macy was rough and ready...well-worn, but with a few miles to go. Or at least that's what we thought so we didn't sink any money into what seemed like a lost cause. Now, I'd like to say I took care of Macy but truth is, I didn't exactly rotate her tires and give her an oil change every 1,000km. Instead, she was pushed to her limits; speeding from light to light, slamming on the brakes, etc. Repairs were slapdash and involved a toolkit consisting of a roll or packing tape and scissors. If memory serves, the only real repair that involved a mechanic was an oil filter which likely hadn't been changed since Macy's birth.
Time rolled on and about a year after we'd come to call Macy our own, it was time for us to saddle up and move on from the beautiful isle. But, what to do with Macy? We couldn't just leave her there, shivering and rusting all alone on some lonely Taipei alley. Both of us felt we owed it to this little scooter who could (and as a matter of good karma) we passed Macy on to another friend of ours. We kept tabs on, thinking about her from time to time and all the fun we'd had racing through the streets of Taipei together.
More time passed and so did our friends' tenure in Taipei. To keep the karma flowing, she also passed Macy onto yet another friend. He had her for a short time before he too left Taiwan. Not wanting to break the karma chain, he passed it on to another friend. That friend also passed it on to yet another friend of ours, who really never took to Macy and driving in these crazy streets. So, Macy sat, waiting for someone to come and claim her.
Fast forward to august 2009; our triumphant return to Taipei and it wasn't long after that I inquired about Macy. I feared the worst for her, but turns out she was just downstairs collecting parking tickets. Our friend said Macy had been sitting once more for about 10 months and offered her to us again. At first, I was hesitant, but after a couple of months relying on public transit I gave in. So, today was the day. I got the keys and thought, what the hell? I'll see if she starts. Surprisingly, the battery still worked and Macy tried and tried to turn over, but just was too sleepy from her long rest. A quick push down the street to the local mechanic, 15 minutes and $500NT later (including helmet) Macy breathed life once again. I carefully put her through her paces and treated my thirsty girl to a new tank of gas. Tomorrow, I'm going to get a new muffler and possibly a new handbrake but shhh! Don't tell her...it's a surprise.
Here's a picture of the old girl...sure glad she's back in my life again. Here's to you Macy and the automotive adventures we'll be having.

Rounding the bend

8 more days.

That's all I have to wait before I finally, finally have substantial enough cash in hand to fully lead the life I remembered and have longed for so long here in Taipei. And I have to say that it has been a long road towards the white light at the end of the tunnel. Since I've arrived, it's been nothing but budgeting and belt-tightening...actually, it's been more like 2 years and 3 months of budgeting, as well as saying 'almost there' to myself over and over again. I finally arrive at the seemingly mythical place of 'almost there' December 10^th and it's going to feel...it's going to feel...well, actually, I kind of forget how it feels so I'll let you know. Top of the list to buy/do are some new clothes, a couple of choice dinners and of course, heading out on the town for some serious dawn til dusk debauchery.

So before I round the bend on almost there, I thought I'd share what I've done to pass the time. Wasting time, biding time, or whichever label you want to put on it, I've been doing lots of it. Lots and lots. Many times lots. The bottom line is that I feel I've done a pretty good job of entertaining myself with low to no-cost activities. I've literally read, watched, listened, downloaded, planned, organized, cleaned, emailed, photographed + learned about all I can handle at the mo'...so much so, I feel bored. To tears. I really just need an evening of drunkenness to keep my brain in check. It won't do any good if my brain gets a swelled head with all the neurons I've recovered during the last few months of financially-induced sobriety.

Things have improved over the last few months. While I still have a bit of hostility towards the job sitch, I have given in and secured gainful employment with a new school. The hours round out the sched quite nicely, and the best part is that I didn't have to give up too many hours at my old job to get the new one. I did have to give up one class, loosening my dependability on the shack of lacklustre learning, but gained an additional 2 hours at the new school instead, so a fair trade as far as I'm concerned. The differences between the two schools couldn't be more removed. L.C is, in a nutshell, disorganized, lacks materials, cohesive curriculum and staff who really care whether the school succeeds or fails. CELP is on the other end of the spectrum: hyper-organized, extensive materials to the point of obscenity and one of the most painstakingly-planned syllabi I've ever encountered. Hmm...wonder which job I'll keep when my contract is up?

Job juxtapositions aside, another new happening is the book club is finally off the ground. At last check, the Taipei Book Club has 34 members and growing day by day. We had our first official meeting on Sunday with only 9 of our members showing up, but it was still a great introduction to something which none of the members (myself included) has ever part of before. The group seems to pull people in from different walks of life and is split pretty evenly down the middle between expats and locals. This should give the meetings an interesting flavour and I'm looking forward to the next meeting already. For our first book, we decided on Blindness by Jose Saramago. Looking forward to it at any rate.

Another thing to look forward to is that Shawn is coming for viz here during CNY. We've been trying to come up with as many activities, sights and other points of interest to jam pack into his holiday. I'm working most of the time, but that's fine as we aren't planning on going anywhere except a day trip, or maybe an overnight or two here in Taiwan. We figure that this is where we live and while a sun+surf holiday to would be great, we should really show him why it is that we live here. Not too sure when his dates are yet, but he will be here for around 2 weeks or so. Leesh is off during that time, so they can do the touristy stuff around the city during the day while I'm at work, and I can show him the night-side of things.

Speaking of night, I just glanced at my clock and realized it's time for bed. I also realized that it's now only 7 more days til 'almost there.'

And only 7 more days before I remove 'almost' from my vocabulary.